大家都知道,我们的身体里有两个小人。每当我们做一个什么决定的时候,他们就会出来,在你脑中说话。我们可以叫他们小白和小黑。其实他们从来不打架,只是关心你。不管你选择哪一个,都对自己好。

通常大家都觉得小白是代表好,小黑是代表坏。都喜欢小白,讨厌小黑。其实这是不公平的。

比如在工作加班的时候。你想:好累呀,要不要继续加班呢?这时候小白就会说:加班!把工作完成,今日事今日毕,明天还有新的工作呢,逼自己一把,让自己变得更好。年轻就是要敢打敢拼之类的吧啦吧啦的话。而小黑会说:该休息就休息,明天还有时间来做。不要让自己太累,身体要紧。这时候你觉得小黑就是不上进。

比如在周末的时候,你躺在床上想:快中午了,不想起床,要不要再躺一会?这时候他们两个也会出来。小白会说:赶紧起床,看看书,学习一下,不能浪费了光阴。要让自己变得更好,就要抓住这些点点滴滴的时间。努力才会有收获之类的一堆吧啦吧啦的话。而小黑会说:累了几天了,周末就放松一下。多睡一会。就当作是给自己前几天拼命工作的奖赏。睡吧。这时候你觉得小黑就是懒。

比如在你喜欢一个人的时候。小白会说:去勇敢地付出,去不顾一切地付出。不要顾忌,不要退缩,像飞蛾一样,尽情的去爱。失败了就舔舔伤口继续爱。你终会成功的之类的吧啦吧啦的话。而小黑可能会说:不要那么冲动,给自己一点空间,给别人一点空间。不要盲目地付出一切,让自己陷入无法自拔的地步。留点心。这时候你觉得小黑就是不真心。

再比如。。。

是的,跟小白走我们会变得更好。小白是光明的指路人,带给我们正能量。但小黑并不是不好呀。

小白像是父亲,目标是明确的,态度是严厉的。一切为了让你变得更好,甚至让你也在别人眼中变得更好。他带着你朝着一个好的方向前进,让你拥有显赫的盛名,地位或其他的一切让人羡慕的东西,但不管你是否承受得了。

而小黑则像是母亲,是盲目的,她只想让你身体健康,心情愉快,过得好好的,其他都不管。

所以,朋友们,当你选择了小白,渐渐地变得更好,也请不要讨厌小黑。小黑也在爱着我们,跟小白一样,只不过是爱的方式不同。

作为一个不上进的凡人,一个精神没有强大到让我能忍耐一切痛苦的地步的凡人,我还是喜欢小黑多点。

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